Paying etiquette dating
Well, not exactly, but this European country’s heritage was all over the Spring 2012 runways this season.Designers went both the masculine and feminine routes with their collections.“I never even pretend to reach if it’s a first date.That’s just standard,” says another editor, “unless, it’s a confusing situation where I don’t know if we’re on a date or we’re just friends.As if the whole concept of dating weren’t awkward enough, it always gets weirder during that dreaded moment when a waiter drops off the check on a table.In the past, the standard was the man always took care of the bill, but in 2014, when gender roles have radically changed, do the same old rules still apply? You can see how things these days have gotten a little confusing. Should I always insist on principle that I contribute fairly?
Generations of women before me popped contraceptive pills, downed pints, threw themselves in front of racehorses - and left me to pick up the tab. There are times when it's wholly appropriate for the fella to cough up: if he initiated the evening, chose the venue and picked the wine, for example.
However, a good rule in dating is not to do anything with the expectation of something in return.
Do you anticipate, even just a tiny bit, that if you pay for dinner, I am obliged to be radiantly complimentary and adulatory company? Some men seem to take great pride in saying those three little words: “I'll get this.” But similarly, men may ask whether an expectation is being placed on them.
Of course, it’s never compulsory to pay on the first date, but it might show that you’re prepared to make the effort with the person you’re dating.
You may find that at the end of the evening when you’ve requested the bill, your date may offer to split things 50/50.